I was at work the other day and it was time for lunch. I went to the fridge in the break room and took my lunch out. I opened the bag and put my container in the microwave to warm up my food. When it was done I went to my desk to start eating. Nothing out of the ordinary. However, when I looked in the bag I saw a note. It was a yellow sticky that read, “Have a good day at work babe. I love you.” Did I mention that my fiance was here visiting? Well, she was. She was here for 10 days from Wednesday before Father’s Day until yesterday morning. Normally, eating leftovers isn’t really a big deal but, there was something special about what was in the bag today. She put love in my lunch. This may not seem like a bog deal to some of you out there reading this but, to me, this was extra special. For starters, I didn’t know she slipped the note in my lunch bag. Second, she did it when I wasn’t really expecting it. Third, I wasn’t in the best mood since my car is acting up, yet again. All I know that there was not in my bag that I did not expect and it was right on time.
This makes me think of Paul’s first letter to the Corinthians. “If I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, but do not have love, I have become a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal. If I have the gift of prophecy, and know all mysteries and all knowledge; and if I have all faith, so as to remove mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing.” (1 Cor 13:1-2). You see all throughout life we have the opportunity to do things to and for people. We have the chance, every single day to do something good. The key is that you have to do it in love otherwise, what’s the point? If I tell you that I am going to do something for you just to let you know that I did something for you, that’s not what it’s about. If my service to humanity is insistent upon itself, I’m not doing what Paul, more so what Christ has been trying to teach us. In fact, it’s just a bunch of noise for my own gratification. Not cool at all.
I said all of this to say that I love the Love in the Lunch. It really made me feel special and it definitely made my day brighter. I’m looking forward to more of the same and can’t wait until I can’t return the love.
Well, here we are again. I do apologize for not being so active in this space. Things have been really busy on my end. I hope and pray that you have been as equally successful in what you’re doing.
I just got word a few days ago that, after the fall semester, I will be a Sophomore at Liberty University. You have no idea how excited I am about this. I am almost done with my first year of college! I honestly did not think that I would have gotten this far. This is nothing but God’s grace and mercy. Granted I’m not pulling a 4.0 or anything like that but, I am doing my best under the circumstances. I am continuing to pray for strength and guidance, as I press on to my goal. The classes themselves have been very enlightening and assuring me that there is so much to learn out there, especially when it comes to the Word of God and His Theology. There were some days that I totally felt like my head would explode from all of the information. It’s definitely been a challenge.
Can you believe that Christmas will be here soon? I promise you that it seems like just yesterday we were saying “Happy New Year”. Things seems to always go by a lot faster not that we’re in adulthood. Not enough hours in the day when you’re working and raising kids and going to school. You’d think that I wouldn’t have time for anything else. Luckily, I was allotted some time so that I could take a mini vacation. I was able to visit Chicago for the very first time a few weeks ago. It was really cool seeing some of the things that I have only seen on TV and to also try some Harold’s Chicken for the first time. I was not disappointed. Most importantly, I was able to spend time with my Sweetheart. It was her birthday that weekend so, I wanted to make sure that I was there for that. I never really thought I could actually get into this long-distance relationship thing. Seemed like a lot of work to me. Well, to be honest, it is even though it doesn’t feel like it. Probably because we spend a lot of time talking or shooting a text here and there. We can’t forget about Skype! That tool has been a blessing to us. Getting to look at each other while we talk is a great thing when you have a few states distance between you. We make sure we set aside time just for that reason. Sure, it’s usually only an hour but I’d rather have that than no communication at all. Basically, you make it what you make it. If that doesn’t make sense, try this: Make the best of your situation in order to have a positive outlook. Was that scholarly enough? LOL
My boys are definitely growing up! I have a 3rd grader and a Freshman in high school!! I’ll reference the above paragraph about how times can slip away from us. They are becoming young men. They say that life is full of new challenges. Well, the three of us will be facing some together. Two boys growing up in a crazy full-speed ahead world and their father trying to make sense of it all. BRING IT ON!!!
Well, that will do it for this session. Stay blessed folks!
Last weekend, my oldest asked me, “Dad if you could change something in your past, what would it be?” That was definitely a random question from him but, not unusual. He’s definitely the analyst between he and his brother. We had just seen the latest Terminator movie so, I am going to assume that this is where the question came from. Anyway, as we pulled into Target to waste some time before going home, I thought about his question so that I could give a halfway intelligent answer. I said to him, “I don’t think I would change a thing. If I were to go back too far, then you and your brother wouldn’t be here. If I didn’t go back far enough, then I may not be where I am at this point in my life. I’m cool where I am.”
That conversation made me think a little more. What if we were able to go back and change some things in our lives? I’m not just talking about the bad stuff. I mean, anything. If I could change the fact that I got out of the Army and stayed in, I would have more than likely been deployed to God knows where for God knows how long. More importantly, there would be a question of would I make it out alive? If I could change the fact that I was laid off more than once, there’s a possibility that I could have been a decent job making good money. The flip side is that I could have missed out on some of the experiences that I have had that, quite frankly, have given me some life lessons that I so desperately needed. I guess the point I’m trying to make here is that the things that have happened in our lives have all be for a reason. Yes, some of them have been bad choices and other good ones. If you’ve made some bad choices in your life, I pray that you have learned from them so that you can be better than who you were back then. If you’ve made some good choices in your life, I pray that you can appreciate them and hopefully cherish them over and over. Here’s the rub: The bad choices are only relative to the time that they occurred. I’d like to think that the so-called bad choices enabled me to grow, learn more about myself, push abilities to their limits and, more importantly, learn how to rely on God. If every choice I made was good in my eyes, then what would have really learned? How could I grow as a man, father, etc? How would I learn how to rely on God? Definitely something to think about, isn’t it?
The next time someone asks you “what would you change?”, think about where you are now and what you could lose if you did change it. I’m pretty sure you’d be happy where you are.
Sometimes, I really dislike trying to be happy. I know that sounds pretty strange but, it’s true. You hear it all of the time, “I’m trying to be happy.” or, “I’m trying to be in a happy place in y life.” The question I want to throw out there today is “why do her have to try so hard to be happy?” Why does it have to take so much effort? Why do we have to waste so much energy just TRYING to be happy? Shouldn’t being happy not require so much effort? Why should we have to do whatever it takes to make us happy? Why can’t happiness just show up? These are some of the questions that I ask myself as I’m just sitting and thinking. What about you?
Well, I’ve done it! I have successfully completed my first term at Liberty University. It was definitely an amazing journey. Walking through the corridors of the Old Testament and learning how to be a successful online student have both given me some much-needed insight on how to keep this school thing going. If there was a drawback, I would say that starting my second term in the process of finishing he first term deemed difficult but, now that the first two classes are over I can get back to being less stressed. The only difference now is that I have to prepare four sermons for the month of April. That part I’ve done before but never while attending college. One of my second term classes is evangelism so, I decided to use that as the focus for the month. You can never learn too much about how to share the Gospel with others.
I hope everyone had a great Easter celebration. We had a really great time yesterday, starting with our Sunrise service and followed by morning worship and Holy Communion. We had a really great attendance as well. I just pray that the numbers will continue.
Speaking of evangelism, we took to the streets 2 weeks ago and passed out some care packages to the less fortunate folks not too far from the church. I’m not sure whether they were homeless or not but, they were in definite need. One of our ministries made bags that contained Toothbrushes, toothpaste, hand sanitizer, and soap. After service that Sunday we passed them out and tried our best to “plant seeds” that, hopefully, landed on fertile soil. Amazingly, one of the ladies we gave a bag to asked us, “where are the bibles? It would be really nice if we could have one of those small New Testament bibles to read.” WOW!! Goes to show you that even though there are some people out there that are going through life struggles, they still want to read the Word of God. Pretty amazing actually! I took her request back to the ministry and they said that they will see about buying some for the next time. I am looking forward to that.
Well, that about sums up my latest adventures. Stay tuned for more…
Well it’s finally Friday. It was a short week but it definitely felt like a regular one. I’ve stopped planning for weekends as I have gotten older. To be honest, I really don’t lead a very exciting life. I go to work, come home, spend time with my boys as much as possible, worship on Sunday, then do it all over again the next week. Pretty mundane if you ask me but, oh well. Things could definitely be a lot worse.
Who’s gearing up for the Super Bowl?! I look forward to this game with bitter sweetness because of the fact that it’s the last game of the season and we will see football until August. I know there is still basketball, hockey, etc but, I only watch those on a college level. In fact, I actually prefer college sports to professional sports. There is something about playing at that level that seems to be more genuine at leat in the traditional sense. Granted, college sports has come a long way–not necessarily for the better but, I still love watching it. This does not take away from my love for the NFL; it just has to know its place in my heart.
I also freely admit to having an addiction to Netflix. Whomever was responsible for this gets props for sure. I’m the type of watcher that will watch an entire series in marathon mode. To me it’s the closest thing to reading a book without turning pages. The last show that I completed was Dexter. If you haven’t seen it, it’s worth looking at. I will warn you that it’s not for the weak-hearted or those that are squeamish. Mature subject matter along with graphic scenes definitely suggests that you not let your children look at this. In certain ways, I can identify with the main character (minus the sociopathic tendencies, and the thirst for killing). He’s definitely a good person at the 3rd layer or so. He definitely likes his alone time…lol. He also definitely loves his family and will do anything to protect them. Yeah, he needed help in a LOT of other areas but, who doesn’t, right?
Ok so, now I am winding down to the last paragraph. I hope you all have a great weekend and I also want to thank each and every one of you that stop by and take a gander at the progress I’m making. I’ve had this blog for a few years and have tried my best to share what God has given me to share. There have been times when I have neglected to post anything not for lack of trying. I plan on making this place a lot more useful. I only ask that, if you enjoy what you’ve read, please share my spot with someone. Well, I guess this is it for today. Have a great weekend.